Belinda “B” Palermo – DeGrande

Belinda DeGrande - Rochester Cremation

Rochester, NY: April 11, 2023 at the age of 56.

Survived by her Parents John & Esther Palermo; Husband Dave Sr.; Step- Children, Dave DeGrande Jr. (aka Lil Dave) & Samantha (James) Adams; Grandchildren, Jayden, Colin, & Armina; Twin Sister Melinda (Cliff) Baerwaldt; Brothers John (Loretta) Palermo, & Dean Palermo; Mother-in-law Marge DeGrande; Brother-in-Law Bob (Doreen) DeGrande; Sister -in-Law Brenda (Joe) Lodato; Auntie Carol Shultz, & many cherished nieces, nephews, & friends.

Belinda grew up in Alden N.Y. Belinda most enjoyed caring for others. She was dedicated to her Husband, family, & friends.  She had a self-made home business which she thoroughly enjoyed & was proficient at. Belinda enjoyed cooking and going “junkin” to find those “hidden” treasures.

To truly know Belinda, would be the love & commitment between her & Dave, Husband of 22 years. The epitomy of true love will continue to be inspirational.

The Family will be holding a Memorial on April 22, 2023, from 2-5pm at Mill Landing Clubhouse, 100 Mill Landing, Rochester, N.Y. 14626.  In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to: UR Medicine Hospice, 2180 Empire Blvd., Webster N.Y.  14580 Or the Charity of your Choice.

11 Condolences

  1. Danny Marinola on April 13, 2023 at 6:33 pm

    Please accept my deepest sympathy to the entire family. Prayers for all during this very difficult time.

  2. Laura & John Walkowiak on April 13, 2023 at 8:05 pm

    My heart just fell to pieces when I heard of Belinda’s passing. Soooo many great times and cherished memories from high school and beyond … such a sweet, warm, faithful, compassionate and funny girl. Our love and prayers are with you as you grieve such a beautiful soul. Love, Laura & John Walkowiak

    • David J. Verschage on April 17, 2023 at 11:12 am

      My heart goes out to her family, especially Dave. I would enjoy our conversations when she would be outside doing yard work or relaxing. That will be greatly missed while working delivering mail in the neighborhood. Prayers for comfort and healing to family knowing she’s in a better place with no more pain and suffering and eternal life. God Bless. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

  3. Kathy cometto on April 13, 2023 at 8:28 pm

    I am so saddened to hear that Belinda is no longer with us. All my heartfelt sympathy and condolences to all who loved Belinda

  4. Sandra Lodato on April 14, 2023 at 10:14 am

    My condolences and my prayers go out to all of u for your loss. May she rest in peace I am so sorry..♥️🙏🙏♥️

  5. Shane D on April 14, 2023 at 1:49 pm

    My prayers are with Dave and family. As our Lords love is eternal, may it fill the void left by B’s departure to be with Him. Until you are reunited in the kingdom of heaven, know that Jesus is the key and seek Him.

  6. Lee Wiggins ( Bouwens ) on April 14, 2023 at 3:40 pm

    My deepest condolences to all of you. My she R.I.P, and I pray you all find comfort in knowing how loved and missed she will be. My heart breaks for all of you.

  7. Betty & Joe Edwards on April 14, 2023 at 5:34 pm

    My condolences to you, Dave & Family. There will never be enough words to express the impact you both held in our lives.

    • Ron Hathaway on April 15, 2023 at 9:29 am

      Rest in peace Belinda… I can’t imagine heaven without seeing Belinda holding Jesus hand.
      I grew up going to Alden School and was in The same class as Belinda and Melinda “84” I connected with Dean in the 2000’s Until I was involved in a horrific motorcycle accident which left me a quadriplegic. When I wasin the hospital at my absolutely lowest point of my life, l received a email from Belinda, praying for me and giving me words of incouragment… She was an absolute blessing and she will forever remain in my heart and prayers God bless you, Belinda 🙏 ❤️.
      To the rest of Belinda’s family and friends, MY Sympathy and Condolences 🙏 – Ron Hathaway.

  8. Catherine Cerulli on April 17, 2023 at 9:29 pm

    What a lovely woman and lovely family:) We miss you on Rhinecliff. Our thoughts are with you all.

  9. Sarah Parker (Denton) on May 4, 2023 at 8:31 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. Belinda was one of my oldest & best friends since 7th grade. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are w/ Belinda’s family during this time.

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