Rochester, NY: November 10, 2020 at age 58, after a short but valiant fight with cancer. Surviving him is his loving wife Amy, children Amanda (Johnathan) Drew, Jordan Oagley and Kellie Pattist, the light in his life his granddaughter Aubree Drew, siblings Stephen Oagley, Mark (Eileen) Oagley and Susan King. He also leaves his cherished nieces and nephews, in-laws and countless friends including Mike Lapinski, Dan Goff, Brian McKinley and his faithful, always by his side Golden Retriever Dakota. He is predeceased by his parents Mary and Jack Oagley.
Brian was a Critical Care Tech Medic with Monroe Ambulance for 10 years finishing his career with Eastman Kodak Company. In his leisure time Brian enjoyed fishing, nature, football, NASCAR, home repair projects, keeping up with the yard and his pool and was a proud Soccer coach for the Spencerport Girls League for 8 years (as he always said, ‘We didn’t win a lot, but boy did we have fun’).
The family wishes to express special thanks to our heroes of the 4100/4200 wings and Respiratory Therapy at Park Ridge Hospital for his exceptional care – there are none better than you. Per Brian’s wishes, there will be no services. Condolences may be directed to the family thru Rochester Cremation.com
One last dance my love –
Songbird
Fleetwood Mac
For you, there’ll be no more crying
For you, the sun will be shining
And I feel that when I’m with you
It’s alright, I know it’s right
To you, I’ll give the world
To you, I’ll never be cold
‘Cause I feel that when I’m with you
It’s alright, I know it’s right
And the songbirds are singing, like they know the score
And I love you, I love you, I love you, like never before
And I wish you all the love in the world
But most of all, I wish it from myself
And the songbirds keep singing, like they know the score
And I love you, I love you, I love you
Like never before, like never before, like never before
Rest now. Until we meet again I love you,
Amy
What a great loss to Brain’s family and friends, Brian was an upstanding man that will be missed by many. I will miss the frequent conversations. RIP
Dan
Bri
Iv’m so very sorry Brian
My uncle Brian, I still can’t believe this is to be true, this has been so unfair to you and aunt Amy. God called on you and must’ve had a bigger plan so for that I will believe, you are no longer suffering, and he needed you. He was a great uncle to me, and a great great uncle to my son Skyler. We were close even when I was kid, and my memories will be permanently in my heart. Countless hang outs at grandma and grandpas, swimming in the pool on hot summer days, showing us the pond in the backyard because it probably had some kind of toad or Lizzard in there. Ha. never did my uncle miss a birthday, or any holiday. he was the fun uncle! He was always so thoughtful and good to us. He always spoiled Skyler. With treats or something cool. His efforts and care into being a uncle never went unnoticed. I wish we have made more memories and had more time for fishing trips or a casino trip. But until we meet again. Will you always be in my heart. uncle Brian I will see you again. I appreciate you and aunt Amy and how lucky we are to have you to call family. Love you always Uncle B.
Brian we will miss you so much, you had a big ❤️ God bless your soul. Rest easy my friend.
Amy I was searching your name on the internet and came accrossed this memorial. I am so sorry to hear of your loss and Am sending your my deepest condolences, snd will keep you in my prayers. Ed also sends his condolences. May the Lord comfort you and your family during this time of greif. Stay safe and well old friend, Pete Echevarria.
Thank you old friends. I’m still at the same place if you’d like to keep in touch.
R.I.P. Brian! Thank you for being a caring neighbor. We are all saddened to hear that you had passed away! With LOVE the CORBOSIERO family!
Merry Christmas my love. It isn’t the same without you. The picture of you and Aubree made me cry. She will never forget you I will see to that. Love you always! Amy
My one and only Valentine –
I love you today and always
Amy
Happy Birthday my Love.
Missing you more than you will ever know.
All my love-
Amy
Happy birthday grandpa B from : Aubree, Cameron, and tilly and your son Dakota . Son in law Jon and your daughter Amanda . Can’t believe it’s been 2 years . Walking into the house and not seeing you sit on the couch still doesn’t seem real to me . You would be 60 today ! Didn’t get to do the big 6/0. Mom canceled plans today but I still think we should of went out to lunch . I think she thought I forgot about today and I wanted to celebrate today for you . 2 years has gone by and still seems like yesterday you called me while I was at work. Hope upstairs is treating you well. Happy birthday 🎈 love you always – All of us
I asked mom today if she wanted to celebrate your life and she aid idk . She didn’t mention anything to us on Thursday either . She seems lost , and sad most days . I tell her to buy clothes that fit her better bc they are too baggy. I tell her to fix her hair and make herself feel pretty. And she doesn’t . I’m sure you see everything they goes on from upstairs . Cameron is crawling and standing now. Aubree is 4 in pre schools. A few weeks ago she asked about you and pointed to my soccer photo asking where you are . Things get better here . Tell the family hello . We love you
I got my test results and i would always call ya ! thanks to you i dont have too anymore. I got mom a teddy bear and it has your voice recorded on it.
I think she liked it but hide the sadness. I know she is alone and sad . She is talking to don now and it isnt the same. He isnt my cup of tea but have to give someone a chance right? Aubree will be 5 this year !!!! cam is 17 months now ! i got the job at strong i told you i wont give up but my next thing is going to nursing school.
Hope heaven is treating you well and all our relatives are doin good ! give everyone a hug and kiss for me !!!!