Brian J. Oagley

Brian Oagley - Rochester, NY - Rochester Cremation

Rochester, NY: November 10, 2020 at age 58, after a short but valiant fight with cancer. Surviving him is his loving wife Amy, children Amanda (Johnathan) Drew, Jordan Oagley and Kellie Pattist, the light in his life his granddaughter Aubree Drew, siblings Stephen Oagley, Mark (Eileen) Oagley and Susan King. He also leaves his cherished nieces and nephews, in-laws and countless friends including Mike Lapinski, Dan Goff, Brian McKinley and his faithful, always by his side Golden Retriever Dakota. He is predeceased by his parents Mary and Jack Oagley.

Brian was a Critical Care Tech Medic with Monroe Ambulance for 10 years finishing his career with Eastman Kodak Company. In his leisure time Brian enjoyed fishing, nature, football, NASCAR, home repair projects, keeping up with the yard and his pool and was a proud Soccer coach for the Spencerport Girls League for 8 years (as he always said, ‘We didn’t win a lot, but boy did we have fun’).

The family wishes to express special thanks to our heroes of the 4100/4200 wings and Respiratory Therapy at Park Ridge Hospital for his exceptional care – there are none better than you.  Per Brian’s wishes, there will be no services. Condolences may be directed to the family thru Rochester

8 Condolences

  1. Amy Oagley on November 15, 2020 at 4:19 pm

    One last dance my love –
    Fleetwood Mac
    For you, there’ll be no more crying
    For you, the sun will be shining
    And I feel that when I’m with you
    It’s alright, I know it’s right
    To you, I’ll give the world
    To you, I’ll never be cold
    ‘Cause I feel that when I’m with you
    It’s alright, I know it’s right
    And the songbirds are singing, like they know the score
    And I love you, I love you, I love you, like never before
    And I wish you all the love in the world
    But most of all, I wish it from myself
    And the songbirds keep singing, like they know the score
    And I love you, I love you, I love you
    Like never before, like never before, like never before

    Rest now. Until we meet again I love you,

  2. Dan on November 16, 2020 at 8:20 pm

    What a great loss to Brain’s family and friends, Brian was an upstanding man that will be missed by many. I will miss the frequent conversations. RIP


  3. Eileen oagley on November 27, 2020 at 11:40 pm


  4. Eileen oagley on November 27, 2020 at 11:41 pm

    Iv’m so very sorry Brian

    • Heather Oagley on November 29, 2020 at 7:28 pm

      My uncle Brian, I still can’t believe this is to be true, this has been so unfair to you and aunt Amy. God called on you and must’ve had a bigger plan so for that I will believe, you are no longer suffering, and he needed you. He was a great uncle to me, and a great great uncle to my son Skyler. We were close even when I was kid, and my memories will be permanently in my heart. Countless hang outs at grandma and grandpas, swimming in the pool on hot summer days, showing us the pond in the backyard because it probably had some kind of toad or Lizzard in there. Ha. never did my uncle miss a birthday, or any holiday. he was the fun uncle! He was always so thoughtful and good to us. He always spoiled Skyler. With treats or something cool. His efforts and care into being a uncle never went unnoticed. I wish we have made more memories and had more time for fishing trips or a casino trip. But until we meet again. Will you always be in my heart. uncle Brian I will see you again. I appreciate you and aunt Amy and how lucky we are to have you to call family. Love you always Uncle B.

  5. Eileen oagley on November 27, 2020 at 11:44 pm

    Brian we will miss you so much, you had a big ❤️ God bless your soul. Rest easy my friend.

  6. Peter A Echevarria on November 30, 2020 at 1:37 pm

    Amy I was searching your name on the internet and came accrossed this memorial. I am so sorry to hear of your loss and Am sending your my deepest condolences, snd will keep you in my prayers. Ed also sends his condolences. May the Lord comfort you and your family during this time of greif. Stay safe and well old friend, Pete Echevarria.

    • Amy Oagley on November 30, 2020 at 9:42 pm

      Thank you old friends. I’m still at the same place if you’d like to keep in touch.

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