Jaimee Lyn Oakley

Jaimee Lyn Oakley - Rochester Cremation

Rochester, NY on January 11, 2023 at age 31. Jaimee is survived by her parents Kitty (Michael) Tolliver and Terry (Debbie) Oakley, siblings Mikayla and Chris Tolliver, beloved grandmother Hope Johnson, and many Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, and friends.

Jaimee was an advocate for social justice, a strong support to many friends, and the biggest Fangirl of Harry Potter that you would ever come across.

The family will receive visitors on March 13, 2023 from 1:00pm-4:00pm at Rochester Cremation, 1118 Long Pond Road, Rochester, NY 14626. 

24 Condolences

  1. Hope on February 11, 2023 at 6:59 am

    My heart is broken. It will never mend. I will love and miss you always.

    • Renee tubiolo on February 11, 2023 at 11:55 am

      Jammie and i had some good laughs expecially in the month of febuary
      Rip jammie. You will be missed

    • Susan Ryan on February 19, 2023 at 4:53 pm

      I wish she would have spoken to someone.We were suppose to go to dinner on your birthday now I will go to your funeral instead.Peace be with you Jaimee and keep showing that beautiful smile.

  2. Teddi on February 11, 2023 at 7:21 am

    My most heart-felt condolences for your loss. Love you all very much.

  3. Sonia on February 11, 2023 at 7:45 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember your sunshine Jaimee💛

  4. Robert Radder on February 11, 2023 at 7:50 am

    Our hearts go out to the entire family.
    With our deepest sympathy
    Uncle Bob & Sharon

  5. Lori on February 11, 2023 at 8:06 am

    So sorry for your loss.. Thoughts and Prayers are with all of you. 🙏🙏🙏❤️

  6. Rhoda on February 11, 2023 at 9:10 am

    Sending many {{HUGS}} and prayers to everyone. Much love!!❤️❤️

  7. Wesley on February 11, 2023 at 9:30 am

    Jaimee was one of my dearest friends. We never once had an argument, we held each other up when times were hard, and she was always there for me when I needed her most.. the same can be said for everyone else she loved. She always gave her all, leaving nothing for herself. She was a force t be reckoned with. Hilarious, her laughter will love in my head and my heart forever. You were so beautiful Jaimee, and so loved.

  8. Barbara Sullivan on February 11, 2023 at 9:48 am

    We are so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and healing prayers.

  9. Fallons on February 11, 2023 at 10:42 am

    Such a shock and loss of vibrancy. We had a few chances to hear that great laugh and be silly together. Jaimee has left a vacuum that will be felt for a long time by many and forever for some. Condolences to Terry and family. We wish peace and hope to all friends and family and eternal love and rest to Jaimee. You’re missed.

    Scott and Tammy Fallon

  10. Liz Grip on February 11, 2023 at 11:19 am

    So sorry for your loss Kitty and family, hugs and prayers to all of you..May God watch over all of you with his healing hand.

  11. Rlt on February 11, 2023 at 11:52 am

    Kitty hope family
    I m not good with words but i am sorry for the lose jamie and i had some nice laughs expecialy ij febuary lol but true.
    Kitty i am here. If u or anyone needs anything
    Jammie will be very much missed

  12. Kayleigh on February 11, 2023 at 1:18 pm

    I miss you so much Jamiee and I only wish I could have more time with you. My heart has been broken ever since i found out you were gone. You were my very first REAL friend and always helped anyone whenever you could. You had a heart of gold and a smile so beautiful that could brighten anyone’s day. I know we’ll be reunited again one day but for now I grieve the loss of the most caring, kind, selfless, loving and amazing friend i have ever had. I know you’re watching over me and your family and friends until we all meet again and have a big ole party. I love you forever Jaimee Lyn Oakley

  13. Tabitha on February 11, 2023 at 2:53 pm

    As I read all the comments I am listening to the generic holiday rave mix from Greg and I am just reliving dancing with Jamie that night in her Christmas elf outfit. She had such an amazing smile and loved to dance everytime I was on the floor. Jamie you will be missed much love where ever u may rome now🌹

  14. darrian on February 11, 2023 at 10:35 pm

    jaimee you are so loved. rest easy darlin.

  15. Diane Hendricks on February 11, 2023 at 11:30 pm

    My deepest condolences to all of you. May the memories you have of Jaimie bring you joy, comfort, peace & laughter. My thoughts & prayers are with you.

  16. Arthur Oakley and jennine, and AJ on February 12, 2023 at 3:25 pm

    you have my deepest sympathy
    so sorry for your loss terry and family

  17. Contreras C on February 13, 2023 at 2:29 am

    So extremely sorry for your loss. Prayers for continued to all

  18. Enjoli on March 4, 2023 at 1:02 am

    I love You

  19. Beverly Cranston on March 9, 2023 at 6:53 pm

    I can’t believe that Monday we are officially saying goodbye. I miss you so much, Jaimee. I went to a really cool place that I know you would have come to with me and I was imagining in my head the jokes you would make about the bathroom, which was covered in Flamingo wallpaper. Every time I pass Electric Ave. I picture your dance to that song… I could tell you any secret and it would never go anywhere. You gave the best hugs. I know we will meet again. Shortly after you left us your favorite bartender, Chris, went to see you. I know you are getting top-tier cocktails with Joey right now. I love you Jaimee.

  20. Kristen on March 12, 2023 at 10:02 am

    My sincere condolences… sending my prayers, thoughts and love.

  21. Teddi on March 12, 2023 at 10:34 am

    Sending my deepest condolence. Love you all very much. Holding you close in my heart, now and forever ❤️

  22. Craig Kwasnik on March 12, 2023 at 6:40 pm

    My family and I send our deepest condolences. Jaimee was a great friend and classmate as had a smile on her face and had an infectious laugh that would make you laugh with her. So sad she is gone but she will never be forgotten. Sorry we can not make it truly wish we could be there

    Sincerely the Kwasniks.

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