Lynette Durfee

Lynette Durfee - Rochester, NY - Rochester Cremation

Lynette passed away suddenly in Rochester, NY on February 4, 2021 at the age of 51.

Lynette is predeceased by her father Richard, mother Margaret (Marge), and her brother Richard (Rich) Durfee

She is survived by her Aunt Betty Capuano and her brothers Michael Durfee and Timothy (Erlene) Durfee. Also her nieces and nephews,  Katrina Moyer Durfee. Shaun (Ruth) Durfee. Erin (Rocky) Lakey, Kelley (Craig) Cavallaro, Richard (RaRa) Durfee, Tim (Jennifer) Durfee and Alec Durfee, Kyle Durfee, Evan, Austin, and Gabrielle Durfee, Her great nieces and nephews Keanan, Devon, Blake, Elizabeth, Avery, Bailey, Domonic and Enzo.

A special thank you to all our cousins and their significant others for your thoughtfulness and prayers in this difficult time, Lynettes friends have been so kind and compassionate. She was truly blessed to have each and every one of you,

A service will be held on February18th 2021 at 9:30 am at St, Theodores Church. 168 Spencerport Rd 14606.


17 Condolences

  1. BETTY Capuanoa on February 15, 2021 at 1:25 pm


    • George DeLucia on February 15, 2021 at 11:00 pm

      Going to miss her she had a great personality and was a great friend if u need anything don’t be afraid to ask

    • Michael Aspenleiter on February 17, 2021 at 9:07 pm

      So sorry aunt Betty. Lynette was a great caring friend and family to me. 🙏 RIP Lynette.

  2. Billy Durfee on February 15, 2021 at 3:21 pm

    Be at peace

  3. Renee Kueppers on February 15, 2021 at 3:27 pm

    😥💔 May your soul be at peace and your memory will be eternal.
    Love you my friend.

  4. Sofia Durfee on February 15, 2021 at 4:18 pm

    I got to know Lynette through Facebook of all places. I’m married to her cousin Bill Durfee. As I began reading her posts, I felt a connection with her and began to comment on her posts. Recently as she was going through some trials I would send her some words of encouragement and perseverance. I’ve had life trials too. We also shared some laughs. I appreciated her sense of humor. She was edgy which I appreciated. My heart broke on her sudden passing. She was so young and seemed to be coming out of a fog and things seemed to be looking up. Heartbreaking. RIP dear sweet Lynette. I was looking forward to meeting you in person one day and although it’s not to be, you made an indelible impression on me in a very short time and I will always remember your spirit. 🌹🙏

  5. Dana santos on February 15, 2021 at 4:26 pm

    My heart is with her and the family. RIP Lynette you will be missed and never forgotten.

  6. Amy (Macks) Fernandes on February 15, 2021 at 7:06 pm

    I’ve known Lynette since the 4th grade.I remember we went to the Caledonia firemen’s festival/parade with her mom and dad.Her dad was in the parade and they won 1st place.Everyone was so happy.Dad gave us money and said go have fun.We rode probably every ride.That was the first time I went on the flying swings.We had so much fun!!We laughed for hours.This was so long ago but left such a happy memory in my heart!We even slept in the back of their station wagon on the way home.I always felt like they were family!I didn’t just lose a best friend,I lost a sister.I will miss you dearly!!I love you Weasel!!Give mom,dad,Richie,uncle Eddie and Andy a big hug for me!Until I see you again,god bless and much love!❤️

  7. Tina on February 16, 2021 at 4:03 pm

    Prayers 🙏

  8. Cindy Araujo on February 16, 2021 at 9:35 pm

    Ah Nette, you were one of the bravest,sincerest, kindest,craziest woman I know. J love you crazy lady but we’ll meet up and catch up later. Till then xoxo
    P.S. Mama says she loves you.

  9. Jenna Adams on February 17, 2021 at 8:39 am

    I miss my Lynette!!! I love you and always will!! RIP. You truly will be missed.

  10. Betty A Capuano on February 17, 2021 at 11:36 am

    My beautiful baby i love you I miss you already you took a part of me with you when God called you home RIP

  11. Beth (emma) Higgins on February 17, 2021 at 7:41 pm

    My heart and life has a void in it that will never be filled now that you are gone my friend!💔 I love you! Until I see you again rest easy 💞

  12. Mary Camelio on February 17, 2021 at 7:52 pm

    Lynette, you will be missed so much. I will miss our laughs and shared memories. Give Richie a big hug for me. I’ll see you both again. Love ya

  13. Anthony DeLucia1 on February 18, 2021 at 4:46 am

    Sorry you went like this never wanted to see anything happen to you just wanted to see you meet the right one and be always Tony

  14. Suzi Brown on February 18, 2021 at 7:09 am

    I was her Alabama girl. We met some 20 years ago. I am heartbroken by this and for her family. Will send prayer up for all of you.

  15. Gina Carapella on February 18, 2021 at 10:48 am

    My heart still hurts over your loss my dear, sweet, beautiful friend. I think about you every single day…and miss you. We’d known each other since junior high/high school, and having reconnected on FB, was like picking up where we left off. I know you are at peace now with our Lord…fly free my Angel. Until we meet again…I love you!!! 😘♥️

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