Pamela (Pam) Young

Pamela Young - Rochester Cremation

Pamela (Pam) Young: September 5, 1961 – January 9, 2023 Rochester NY.

Pam fought a brave battle but passed away peacefully surrounded by her family.

Pam is predeceased by her parents, Marvin L and Helen M Young, twin sister Susan (Dan) Sterling and sister Gail (Daniel) Barrett and great nephew Talan.

Pam is survived by her wife Debby Matson, sisters Linda (Tom) McCann, Karen Young, Sandy (Steve) Simmons. Pam’s nieces and nephews were her kids, Danny, Holly, Greg, Kelly, Rachel, Amber, Dawn, Adam, Sara, Courtney, Cassie, Mary, Rick, and Allison. Great nieces and nephews Tyler, Nick, Chris, Corey, Dana, Claudia, Christian, Megan, Ryan, Brendan, Colin, Arianna, Brooklyn, Summer, Scarlett, Tayten, Elijah and great, great nieces Lillian and Valkyrie.

Pam was the best aunt and always kept the kids laughing.  She was the life of the party and loved to listen to her music and sing along, especially when others would join in.

A celebration of Pam’s life will be held privately by the family.

We want to thank the staff at Lifetime Care Home Health Care & Hospice for their care and support and request donations to be made in Pam’s memory if so desired.

10 Condolences

  1. Jill Graby on January 11, 2023 at 5:51 pm

    We were so sorry to of Pam’s passing. She had a sense of humor like no other! She will be forever known as “Sneakers” a nickname she acquired as as young teen.
    Our deepest to Debby, Linda, Sandy, Karen and the rest of Pams family and friends,
    The Graby Family

  2. Ronnie mack on January 12, 2023 at 7:04 am

    So sorry to hear of this sad news. With love

  3. Cindy lucitte on January 12, 2023 at 7:53 am

    I’m so sorry for this sad news, my prayers are with you all.

  4. Debi (Young) LaFleur on January 12, 2023 at 9:59 am

    Dear Young family I’m so sorry to hear of the loss of Pam. I will be thinking of you all during this time and sending comforting thoughts your way! Bless you all at this time! ♥️🙏♥️🙏

  5. Lisa young on January 13, 2023 at 2:40 pm

    To my cousins, my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
    Love you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻

  6. Janice Giardino on January 13, 2023 at 10:30 pm

    So sorry to hear this news. We had lots of laughs together in our high school years. Rest peacefully Pam. My thoughts and prayers for all her loved ones left behind.

  7. Julie Schulman on January 14, 2023 at 3:14 pm

    I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of Pam. I would like to offer my condolences to her friends and family and her wife Debby. Pam had a sense of humor like no one I’ve ever known and was very witty as well as kind. I remember her love for Alice her love for dogs. You will be deeply missed by many.

    • Julie Schulman on January 14, 2023 at 3:21 pm

      Pam’s love for music and dogs.

      Alice was a mistake.

  8. Patty D'Agostino on January 15, 2023 at 3:33 pm

    Karen I’m so sorry for your loss….I love you and think about you all the time! Patty D’Agostino 💜🙏

  9. Renee Speranza on January 18, 2023 at 2:01 pm

    Debby and Young Family, I’m so sorry for your loss and will keep you in my thoughts. I am thankful that Pam called me a friend. I have so many memories of times we spent together laughing, listening to music and more laughing… the good times will never be forgotten. Memories bring memories – i will miss you Pam.

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