Patricia Ann Spafford “Patty”


Williamson:  Patricia passed peacefully at the Leo Center for Caring on 4/9/2015 after a 4 year battle with Ovarian Cancer.  She is survived by her husband, Rodney Spafford; daughters, Marcy (Nery) Solares of Hopewell, VA & Jill (Zane) LaMountain of Ellicott City, MD; granddaughter, Ciara Qualtieri; grandsons, Cameron Solares & Reid LaMountain; mother, Beverly Deline of Marion NY; sister, Sandy (Don) Cunningham of Wolcott, NY; brothers, Richard Deline Jr. of Williamson NY & Daniel (Cec) Deline of Phelps, NY; many friends.

Family and friends are invited to a a Celebration of Patty’s Life on Saturday, April 11th, at the Marion American Legion, 4141 Witherden Rd., Marion, NY 14505 from 12:30 P.M. to 3:30 PM.  A Remembrance Service will be held at 1 P.M.

Donations in lieu of flowers to the Humane Society of Wayne County.

Rochester Cremation, 4044 W. Henrietta Road, Rochester NY 14623, 359-2300,

9 Condolences

  1. Chris and Vicki Case on April 9, 2015 at 9:07 pm

    Deepest condolences for your loss.

  2. denise & bill on April 9, 2015 at 11:25 pm

    sorry for your loss

  3. sherry & scott converse on April 10, 2015 at 7:19 am

    God bless all of your family, Rod.
    So very sorry for your loss.
    Take care of yourselves and enjoy your memories.

  4. Sharon Sovie on April 10, 2015 at 9:41 am

    So very sorry for your loss my thoughts and Prayers are with all of you .

  5. Susan on April 10, 2015 at 9:43 am

    I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s a feeling I share as I knew Pat for most of our lives. But I’m glad she’s not in pain anymore and that her spirit is at rest. I’ll never forget her.

  6. Your loving sister, Sandy on April 11, 2015 at 6:39 pm

    I will miss you everyday. You were a great sister. You will live in my memories forever. Love you always…….

  7. Jennifer Remien on April 11, 2015 at 11:59 pm

    We are so sorry for your loss. Blessings to you and your family in this tragic time.

  8. Rod Spafford on April 21, 2015 at 7:12 am

    These last three and a half years have tested my character and commitment to Patty.  I hope that I scored high enough to atone for some of the things I haven’t done so well over the years.  

    She and I were very different people.  For two people who viewed so many things so differently to spend over 40 years together is nothing short of amazing.  I signed almost every anniversary card I ever gave her with “yet another miracle”.  Often in jest but occasionally true.

    We may not have been soul mates but we were the best of friends. Patty  and I were not always good to each other but we were always good for each other.  

    I will miss her dearly for the rest of my life.

  9. Jeff Regis on January 8, 2017 at 1:04 am

    I had a long term relationship with Patty. We enjoyed each others company and pleasured each other sexually.

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