Tommie Lee Parsons Jr.

Tommie Lee Parsons Jr - Rochester Cremation

Tommie Lee Parsons Jr., 23 years old (March 9, 2000), of Rochester, NY, died September 13, 2023. Tommie Lee Jr. is survived by his mother, Kathleen Parsons Roth, and her husband, Dave, his father, Tommie Parsons Sr and his wife, Annette. Tommie Lee Parsons also leaves behind his beloved dog, Dozer, and cat, Jazzy.

Tommie Lee Jr. is survived by grandparents, including Sue Hunn, Frank, and Marie Oberg. Tommie Lee Jr. is preceded in death by grandparents Dan Slekes, John Ellsmore, Carol Ellsmore, and William Hunn.

Tommie is survived by his siblings, Ashley, Sandra (Matt), Courtney, Joseph, Cassidy, Michael, Madeline, Rebecca, Jackson, Maxwell, Quinn, Marlee Rose, and Rhonda Rae, and a multitude of aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews and friends who held a special place in his heart.

To commemorate the life of Tommie Lee Jr., we have arranged for two separate celebration of life events. One will be dedicated to honoring Tommie alongside his mother’s family, friends, and connections. This will be held September 23, 2023, from 12 pm-8 pm at Camp Eastman, Kiwanis Cabin, 1301 Lake Shore Bvd. 14617. The 2nd event will held in the company of Tommie’s father’s family, friends, and connections. This will be held September 24, 2023, from 12 pm – 6 pm at 11 Hilton Drive, Hilton, NY 14468. This choice has been made to ensure that both branches of Tommie’s family can cherish and remember him in their special way. You are welcome to attend either or both. Your understanding and support during this time are deeply appreciated as we gather to celebrate Tommie’s life.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to Swift River Addiction Campus, an organization close to Tommie’s heart. Donations can be mailed to 151 South St. Cummington, MA 01026.

Tommie’s sudden departure leaves an irreplaceable void in the lives of all who knew and loved him. His smile, kind, loving heart and warm, affectionate hugs will truly be missed by all. May his soul find eternal peace, and may his memory continue to unite and strengthen the bonds of family.

Rest in Peace, dear Tommie. You will be deeply missed but forever cherished in our hearts.

14 Condolences

  1. Tom Parsons on September 19, 2023 at 1:04 pm

    Dear Son,

    I love you with all my heart. I know you are here with us! I love you son. I miss you son. Please watch over us! Until we meet again my boy. I love you.

  2. Cassidy Parsons on September 19, 2023 at 3:02 pm

    Tommie, you are the best little brother and uncle. My bestfriend, backbone and biggest supporter. I love you so much. Audrey, chase, grayson and Xander they miss you and love you with their whole hearts. Look over us buddy. Till we meet again ❤️

  3. Sue Hunn on September 19, 2023 at 4:54 pm

    Rest in peace, sweet grandson. You will be in our hearts forever.

  4. Darlene Sarley on September 19, 2023 at 6:49 pm

    I’ll never forget your excitement to come to Missouri. I enjoyed spending time with you at the resort and at the house.You were so sweet. You will never be forgotten. I sure wish I could of spent more time with you. Love you

    • Kathy and Rex on September 19, 2023 at 7:16 pm

      The family of Tommie Lee Jr.
      We are so sorry to hear of your loss. There are no words to comfort your sorrow. But know that Tommie will live on in your hearts and memories. He will always be with you.
      Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
      Rest in peace Godson.

  5. Molly on September 19, 2023 at 8:18 pm

    Tommie, although I didn’t know you as much as I should have, your whole family loved you especially your mom..please watch over her, and your sisters.

  6. Kelly East on September 20, 2023 at 7:26 am

    Tommie your life and spirit meant so much to all that adored and loved you! Your smile and and presence will forever be missed. Fly High Tommie. Prayers for healing and strength to the Family and friends.
    Western NY Sealing and Paving, Inc.

  7. J Thompson on September 20, 2023 at 9:38 am

    We’ve known Tommy’s father and family for a few years and had some interactions with Tommy and we were left with the impression that he was a very loving and caring person that was creating his life in a positive direction. When we feel the world is turning against us it’s family,friends and yes sometimes outside intervention to get us through the tough times. Kudos to everyone that made a positive impact on his life. If you want to honor a person like Tommy look for the person in the back of the room sitting in silence and walk up them give them a smile and ask them how their day is going and I’ll guarantee you that you just made a positive difference in that persons life.
    Jack and Judy Thompson

  8. Jennifer Odom on September 20, 2023 at 10:02 am

    So sorry for this unimaginable loss you all are trying to process. May you find comfort and peace through the beautiful memories you have of Tommie.

  9. Kathleen Parsons Roth on September 20, 2023 at 1:02 pm

    My one and only baby boy – you were the “oh my can we really do this again” baby and I have never ever looked back – nothing but peace and love from the day I found out I was pregnant and when we found out you were a BOY oh my goodness, I knew life was going to change. You brought nothing but joy to our lives and gave your sisters their first look at being mommy material. You never had to even ask for anything, they knew your needs before anyone did. You were the strongest man I have ever known. Even at a young age you tried to be the “Dr. Phil” of the family and keep everyone and everything peaceful. I know that your grandparents are all watching over you and I am sure that Buddy was running to greet you with this tail going a million miles a minute. Please watch over of all of us and know that you touched so many lives in such a short time. I will never her “my bad” or “I gotchu” again but I know you got all of us. Love you my dear sweet baby boy.

  10. Larisha A Fragoso on September 20, 2023 at 1:23 pm

    I’m so Thankful to have the pleasure of being related to a remarkable young man. To have witnessed your joy and laughter, to have felt the love you carried for those you loved . Even though you can no longer be with us. Heaven is lucky to have you. Love and miss you 😢 🥰

  11. Madeline on September 21, 2023 at 5:34 pm

    I love you big brother… always have, always will❤️

  12. Bruce willis on September 25, 2023 at 8:05 pm

    Tommie i hope you know i will never forget you you was more then a coworker more then a friend you was my brother i love you dearly lil bro you will always be in my heart

    Love bruce

  13. Debbie Barlow on October 5, 2023 at 12:05 am

    To Tommie’s family;
    Sending you my deepest condolences to this needless death of your son. He must of been an awesome son, brother and nephew.

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