James H. Musler, (Jim) born December 15, 1943, passed away in Rochester NY on September 15, 2024, at 80 years of age.
Jim’s father was Louis Musler, his mother, Eleanor Wasserman and his stepfather, Milton Wasserman.
Jim is survived by his wife of 58 years, Mary Louise, as well as his son Graham, his daughter and son in law, Brittany and Geoffrey Hinman, and his grandchildren, Piper and Fox.
For most of his career Jim acted as a sales representative in the clothing and gift industries. His unique eye for fashion and design gained him popularity among his clients. After retiring, Jim asserted
his outgoing personality through part-time work, becoming known as an affable food cart vendor. His regular set up was at the Powder Mills Park office complex, and on the weekends, he catered countless private parties and celebrations. He also enjoyed his years as a bus driver for the Pittsford Central School District and Children’s Institute, where the children enjoyed his light-hearted demeanor.
Jim’s commitment to volunteering started in the turbulent 60s when he supported voter registration efforts and later, engaged in anti-Vietnam War efforts in Utica, New York. Locally, he volunteered for
Planned Parenthood and Pittsford Ambulance Services.
Physically active, Jim embraced running for several years, completing the New York marathon in 1987. Racquet sports became a central interest with tennis a focus for thirty years to be overtaken by
pickleball that he played avidly as often as he could.
Jim’s open, communicative style led to many friendships, and for those who knew him best, he was recognized as a raconteur, relating past incidents that revealed his take on the human condition and
his delight in social commentary. His laugh was warm and contagious. On the home front, Jim exercised his artistic side. He spent many hours searching for unique, well-made items as well as creating his own designs to enhance the family’s living space. Pottery, wood working, sculpture, home decorating, and fashion claimed his interests.
A special gathering is planned on September 29 from 11:00 A.M.–2:00 P.M. at the Fairport Pickleball Clubroom, 75 North Main Street, Fairport, for friends and colleagues who wish to honor him.
In lieu of floral tributes, donations can be sent to:
Planned Parenthood, 114 University Avenue, Rochester, NY 14605
Children’s Institute, 205 St. Paul Street, Rochester, NY 14604
Mary Louise, and Family, I was so very sorry to hear of the passing of your husband and father. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you all. I am sure the memories of such an outgoing man will bring you comfort now and throughout your lifetimes.
Sincerely, Gloria Gaines,
Although we did not see each other often in our later years, cousin Jim always had a special place in my heart. I have no doubt he felt the same towards me. Even as he held forth on social issues of our time, his boyish charm and sincere caring for others was apparent. Kind condolences to all family and friends who knew and loved Jim.
Graham and Musler family – I am so very sorry and am sending you love and light. <3
Our long conversations led us on many journeys together. I felt that we were able to talk of anything because there would be no time left to get back to it. We had to say it all before the time was gone forever. I memorized your face when I drew your features, and now they are etched forever in time both in my mind and on the paper. Goodbye my friend you will live forever in our hearts
Dear Marylouise, Brittany, and Graham, As I was reading Jim’s obituary I had tears thinking about our many coffee meetings and our political conversations. He was a true Democrat as am I. And thinking also of the weekend you and Jim spent with Eileen and me at our camp in the 1000 islands. Great memories that we will always treasure. Our deepest condolences to all of you. Loved Jim! To a new beginning, Dave and Eileen
Mary Louise, Brittany, and Graham, As I read Jim’s obituary, I teared up just thinking about our many coffee meetings and our many political conversations. He was a true democrat as am I and we always roasted the Republican Party. I also remember the fun weekend at our camp with you and Jim in the 1000 islands. Many fond memories! Eileen and I send our most loving condolences. We will always remember Jim! David and Eileen Heil🥰
May the lord and watch over you and the family. Well wishes and sending my condolences.
We were sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. Arms around all of you