Robert E Stiewe Jr. aka “Heavy Metal Bob”
Victor, NY – Passed on May 16, 2018 peacefully with his loving wife Jan by his side, he had two step daughters Cori and Kelli he loved dearly and many many friends he considered family. Special thanks to Todd Snyder, Rick Krempin, Linda Diamond, and Benincasa hospice for all the support during this time. A special celebration of life will be held at the convenience of the family. Donations to the Benincasa House would be greatly appreciated. Crank it up Bob!
Bob rocked. Always friendly, kind to his customers, and just an all around nice man. I still remember going to the heavy metal store back at the Old Church in the 80’s getting Twisted Sister albums (or was it tapes, mind is hazy) and listening to Slayer and Megadeth and Def Leppard while shopping. Remember all those bootleg CD’s Bob had behind the counter? He will be missed and the metal God’s will look over him. Up the irons Bob! R.I.P.
Bob was a staple in the Rochester community. Going to heavy-metal records was always an exciting adventure. Bob had some of the most unique items around. It was great to see him at local record shows too. He will be missed.
My condolences to Bob’s family. Bob’s love and passion for music was pure and true. I feel like I grew up with Bob. As a kid finding his heavy metal records store in a church basement was like finding a home! It was one of my favorite places in the whole world.I spent so much time in both stores.After leaving Rochester and moving to Boston I always,always made a stop to see Bob. His knowledge,kindness and love for all metal and rock never waivered. I feel like every time I walked through that door I felt like the next words out of my mouth would be “what’s this your playing?” I was always turned on to something that was new to me that Bob would educate me on. Even last Feb. He was cranking Armored Saint schooled me the band and I walked out with 2 Armored Saint albums thinking how’d I miss these guys all these years thanks Bob! Also we had a running joke for almost 30 years on when He was gonna sell me his Iron Maiden cutout Standee for Killers that he had on his wall. I’d always ask is today the day you’re selling that to me? He’d always smile and mildly laugh and say ahhh… I can’t sell it,maybe some day. Some people are just special players in your life that are actually parts of the fabric of you.I don’t think I realized that until hearing that Bob passed. He was a wonderful person and a good nice man. 30 years of only great thoughts about someone. That’s a pretty great track record! Rest in peace Bob. I know your cranking tunes with the big guy up there! You will be missed. Best Regards -Scott Infantolino
We are so sorry to hear of Bob’s passing. His passion for golf and music really defined him. We used to go to the Amerks Hockey games with him and Sharon years ago. Rest in peace Bob.
Heavy Metal Records was an important part of my formative years growing up in the village of Webster. I wasn’t a fan of heavy metal, but he always had a cool selection of imports, 12″ new wave singles, posters, and collector books. Plus I’ll never forget that Plasmatics poster on the wall! Thanks for the memories, Bob! You’ll be missed.
I am devastated to hear of Bob’s passing. I had no idea his cancer had returned. He is with his beloved parents now, which I know he missed terribly. I thought of Bob often over the years and have missed his great smile. Enjoy the heavenly golf game Bob. Hit em straight and long!!
Heavy Metal Bob,
Thank you for all you have done for keeping the music alive.
You were a very cool, dedicated man! Horns up, friend.
I love and miss you so much already! You always made me smile. I miss your blue eyes, your voice, your laughter. You always made me feel safe. You never complained about your cancer, all the tests and treatments you endured, you were a brave man till the end. I wish I could have saved you…..Till we meet again, I love you “Bobbie” ❤️